I've been a regular consumer of Angie's
Under the Table column in Time Out HK. Lately, every time I see Angie, I've complained about the lack of surprising new restaurants in Hong Kong. Angie would dutifully throw out a few new restaurants. But ultimately, she would end up agreeing that there was really nothing new and exciting to rave about.
So when an email promoting a new Korean fusion restaurant popped up in my inbox, despite the fact that it was located in TST's Miramar shopping center, I forwarded it to Angie because I wanted to find out what Korean fusion is. We decided to check it out for lunch.
"Want to walk through
K11 afterward?" she asked.
"sounds like a lovely lunch date! i wonder how i can script it to end up in your column? ;-)" I replied.
"Invite my ex-boyfriends? I'm sure we'll find debauchery at lunch," she emailed back.
"if we don't find it, we can surely create it," I wrote back.
In the end, the restaurant was nothing to write about. K11 is just another shopping mall. And we didn't find or create any debauchery. Instead, we had a discussion about the fate of media, how there really is no such thing as lifestyle journalism (assuming that journalism implies objectivity), and how all our moments and experiences seem to be brought to us by [insert brand here]. Angie recounted a recent Tiffany & Co. moment, and we chatted about how the way we experience travel these days is through so many media filters. When we go to a new destination, we already have in our minds an idea of what we should be experiencing as pre-packaged by whatever media we have consumed: FT's How to Spend It versus a show on Discovery Travel & Living versus television shows and movies.
"How can you accept it (advertising/marketing-driven editorial, the seeming lack of authenticity of our experiences)?" Angie asked with a how-can-you-give-up-the-good-fight tone.
And here, I felt another one of those I-really-must-be-getting-old moments. "Because I'm half a decade older than you are," I replied. "And I've had more time to come to terms with the fact that I'm just as avid and guilty a consumer, as well as a producer, of all this fakeness." Interestingly, our luncheon conversation left me feeling quite serene.
When I got back to the office, I came across these pages in a fascinating
new book of interesting statistics culled from Jonathan Harris'
We Feel Fine website. I found it interesting that Asians expressed more feelings of anger and fear than people on other continents around the world, while also expressing the least amount of joy (What are Asians angry and fearful about?). Unsurprisingly, Americans expressed the most joy (we are "hopeless optimists", as many of my non-American friends have pointed out):

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